Married Men with female friends?

well, i can tell you one thing. if you are fantasizing about other women besides your wife, something is wrong. maybe you should tell/ask your wife about this, see how she feels about it! if i knew my man were fantasizing about other women, not only would i be hurt, i would be furious. its NOT okay to do this, no matter how many times you tell yourself it is. b/c before too long, you will act on your fantasies and cheat on your wife. if you cant not think about your friends like that, then maybe you should just stop hanging around them. an impure mind leads to an impure heart.